Most interviews I had in the last 10 years use video. You might be able to lie your way out of the female voice but lying your way out of having an obvious man face, a non-US accent, and a look that obviously doesn't match your name would take politician level lying. They won't care if you say you are transitioning, or your race. They will care if they pick-up on the fact you are being dishonest with them.
You can get stuff shipped by DHL, UPS, FedEX fast enough. But that does need someone in the US to do the shipping.
Your girlfriend knows you are doing this, right? She has to file correct taxes and state that the income you make is hers. That income really has to go into her bank account or it could get messy with banks when they freeze transactions and ask for a wage slip and job contract in your name.
India. Just about any city. The air pollution, the smell of human waste, piles of plastic waste everywhere. Rats everywhere. Locals spitting strange red stuff on walls everywhere. Restaurants that put a used cup from one table on your table after just shaking the water out, no cleaning.
Jakarta was pretty nasty on air pollution too, I felt sticky all over just being outside for half an hour.
Netherlands is dirty in its own way. Everything looks clean but people don't wash their hands after going to the toilet, like that's just not a thing there. Now imagine all the things those people touch that you also touch. Also they don't use gloves when handling food. Now imagine those two things together. Gross.