Hey, I know what you mean. I catch myself doing this too, just looking for things to nitpick about. A nasty habit. My friend sometimes reminds me 'you're doing that thing again' which is helpful. The thing is it doesn't even feel like negativity -to me I'm just making conversation. I have to be more considerate when in the company of others and just enjoy experiences for what they are.
Hey, I know what you mean. I catch myself doing this too, just looking for things to nitpick about. A nasty habit. My friend sometimes reminds me 'you're doing that thing again' which is helpful. The thing is it doesn't even feel like negativity -to me I'm just making conversation. I have to be more considerate when in the company of others and just enjoy experiences for what they are.