DharmaCurious

joined 2 years ago

I started using Linux in 2008. A friend of mine on an old forum showed me wubi and helped me get set up. When he went AWOL and stopped posting, I went on some Ubuntu forum and asked for help with a problem I was having (WiFi had stopped working randomly). Those people tore me apart and spit on my bloodied corpse. It was brutal. Apparently, I was a disgusting moron for using wubi instead of replacing windows (on my netbook with no disc drive) entirely. It was insane. I've since discovered that I'd just found a particularly toxic group by chance, and that most of the community is actually very kind. But at the time, it was genuinely hurtful. I not only stopped asking for help for a long time, I stopped learning about Linux and computers in general because I felt like it was something I'd never understand, I was clearly too stupid to get it.

This. Exactly this. I'm dying to know.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 34 points 1 year ago (5 children)

10 years ago me and my mom worked jobs from home. I did CenturyLink (phone company) and HSN and QVC. She did dish network, directv and Eddie Bauer. It was easier then to find wfh jobs than it is now. Then it was unusual, but no stigma. Now it's like you're an evil clown bent on molesting the village's sheep if you even suggest it. -_-

God, thank you so much for asking this. It's been driving me insane, and I didn't even consider that I could be a togglable feature!

It never ceases to amaze me, as a child and care giver of a parent with physical disabilities, how much this world is designed with no regard for people. It's incredible. Fuck city planners.

My mom had a similar issue in our town, though no where near as bad. Her wheelchair is quite a bit heavier, but we got a small folding ramp that we bungee to the back of her chair and take with us everywhere. Whenever we find somewhere that she can't go because of a step of less than 12 inches/30cm we can use that. It it's more than that, we just have to figure something else out or not go there. It's not okay the way everything is designed. And it doesn't make sense. Everyone, regardless of mobility, can use a ramp, not everyone can use a step. Why is it so hard to get the fucking ramp?

I'm not pretending anything. You're entire attitude is hostile and I'm done talking to you.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's not excuse, but thanks for being dismissive of disabilities that might be different to your own. I'm not pawning you off as anything, and I do think we need massive reform and restructuring. But motorized wheelchairs are not a viable solution to someone who needs to get to a doctor's office 20 miles away, nor are busses a solution to someone who has severe difficulty being outside of their home for hours on end. Should most of us be driving? No. Should no one be using cars? Also no.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 34 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Some people also don't have physical disabilities or family members with them, and it really shows. Bikes are great, and we absolutely should be encouraging bike use, but the automobile is, frankly, a necessity for millions of people. We shouldn't be getting rid of wheelchairs, either. I swear, sometimes I feel like the fuck cars community is basically anprim. Yes, fuck cars, yes fuck car culture, but jimminy crickets they're not evil. Our use of us them.

But an excellent band name. Imagine "chemo for the soul" by Living Drugs, feat. 4skin

This would make an excellent recurring story on American dad wherein Jeff is secretly a Superman à la quailman from Doug.

Having lived in Florida, I can assure it, it's completely unreal.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Genuinely excited about this. I'm a big audiobook fan, but I've never done these kinds of audio stories, how different are they to audiobooks?

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