EABOD25

joined 4 months ago
[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

What I'm getting at is I understand how closed minded people would be upset about it

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

Wholeheartedly agree. That was my point

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

drag queens have a right to... drag? personal life doesn't impact professional life or affect any parties not involved. People should be able to find their happiness in this fucked up world.

And to be more clear. I'm criticizing people who have let their upbringing convince them that something that is none of their business somehow impacts their personal life

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

NGL, I've met 3 people in my life that are/were drag queens. All 3 have tried to get in my pants even though I'm not gay. HOWEVER COMMA, that was just 3 people in that community. That doesn't define the whole demographic. A person that didn't grow beyond their narrow upbringing probably wouldn't have that kind of perspective. It creates fear and shame for who those people really are. Granted I also was not friends with those people. I didn't know them beyond their persona's and they didn't know me beyond barroom shenanigans. But digressing back to my point, if you grow up in a household where your true feelings of how you should live are suppressed, then that creates shame which puts people like this in this position. It's a way of thought that is quickly diminishing and people are beginning to be able to live how they want regardless of personal opinion. The people who scream against those acts and get caught participating should definitely be criticized, but criticized still with open arms because that's a victory for all parties.

But, I'm a white cis male, so my opinion should be taken with a grain of salt

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Is that a brag or a threat?

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee -1 points 1 month ago

Don't have a solution, want to leave this here for the advice

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago

Peace of mind

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 9 points 1 month ago

You made a friend, OP. That honestly says a lot about your character

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 9 points 1 month ago

That worked. Thanks

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

That's a good idea. Might help some other people, but I bought a J to use through the weekend while the wife is out. Pretty sure it's CHS and karma haha

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

Dammit. That's not cool. The wife is out of town for the weekend, so I figured I could get lit. That sucks

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