You're less damned if you don't than if you do. I say let Bigots and their apologists be mad, defending Kolanki who was absolutely justifiably banned from lemmy.blahaj.zone screams apologia to me.
In order to keep a safe space safe, one has to be okay with pissing people off, and the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the mods who sympathize with a person playing the victim when he's told allyship must be earned.
You're less damned if you don't than if you do. I say let Bigots and their apologists be mad, defending Kolanki who was absolutely justifiably banned from lemmy.blahaj.zone screams apologia to me.
In order to keep a safe space safe, one has to be okay with pissing people off, and the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the mods who sympathize with a person playing the victim when he's told allyship must be earned.