GetOffMyLan

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[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 8 points 2 days ago (3 children)

The problem is it's a tiny fraction of games and users. It's a lot of resources for little gain.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Indeed. But everyone has different levels of ability. Again mental health can drastically increase this difference.

My advice for dealing with this is using yourself as the measuring stick. Are you better than you were a year ago? Etc.

Aim to beat your personal best and that's still good progress.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Then they clearly aren't attainable are they? You feel they should be but the evidence says they aren't.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 6 points 2 days ago

Semi auto properties and params collection are long overdue. Great to see them in there.

System.Text.Json respecting nullability is also great. But may break some things if you didn't realise you were relying on the old behaviour.

LoggerMessage source gen using primary constructors fixes a minor pain.

EF generating SQL at compile time is also pretty sweet. Better query performance from precompiled and better startup performance from not having to precompile at runtime.

All in all it looks pretty good.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

A big problem is that it's just text. In real life tone and body language go a huge way to determining how someone means to make you feel.

If someone is disagreeing with you in real life it's much easier to tell if they just have a different opinion and respect yours or are being a dick.

Often when someone comes across really rude it's meant in a half joking way which again would be easy to tell in an actual conversation.

These misunderstandings lead to things heating up real quick.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 31 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (7 children)

You basically have to change how you calculate your worth.

You are the one who set the standards that you are failing to meet.

People with depression often fall into this trap. You set a standard you can't possibly reach and then get upset you aren't reaching said impossible standard.

When I get thoughts like this i try to look past my thoughts and feelings and look at the evidence.

Is your son happy? Have they done anything that leads you to believe they feel let down? Etc.

Because it sounds like the only thing making him unhappy is you being unhappy.

Kids generally just want attention and love more than anything. Things are nice but they are no substitute.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 6 points 3 days ago

Because you aren't a 6 year old and have to use your big boy words in the adult world.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 4 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Orks and humans had no multi select 🙃 apparently they're adding that in though which might make it playable.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Is the song about gaza?

Edit:

though the song itself makes no mention of the conflict in the Middle East.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 8 points 3 days ago

How is it in poor taste?

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 16 points 3 days ago (10 children)

I mean the reaction is a tad racist. It's a song about peace just in a language they don't like. I bet if they played a song in English about peace no one would care.

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