IndeterminateName

joined 1 year ago
[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm asexual and aromantic so those parts just don't do anything in my head. I often find people's romantic woes very confusing as the option of "just leave them" seems very simple to me!

I do experience a lot of love for my friends though and make friends easily so I'm in no way lonely or pining.

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 5 points 5 months ago

As someone who is an environmentalist and works in the bus industry this really heartens me. Public transit really needs to step up it's game in response to climate change and I'm excited for that.

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I'm just starting to get into aquariums. Had one as a kid and now that I've got my own place I can do the naturalistic planted tank(s) of my dreams! Got the substrate and hardscape sorted yesterday, going back to the shop for plants today!

First tank is only 27L but a friend gave me a 65L one that is going to be epic!

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 1 points 6 months ago

I've been using ViewTube specifically because it was easier to set up. Although it also fails to play videos occasionally

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 3 points 7 months ago

For me learning I was aroace was hugely freeing, realising I could just opt out of the whole dating mess

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 3 points 9 months ago

Working my way through Anne McCaffrey's Pern novels again. Read them first as a child and it's lovely being back in that world again

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 98 points 9 months ago (8 children)

I used to have a moral objection to piracy, I thought that if a piece of media is good enough that I enjoy it then the people that made it deserve to be paid for their work.

I'm increasingly of the opinion that even if I do pay for something there is no guarantee that the people that worked on it will get their fair share and paying for media is increasingly a worse user experience than piracy.

[–] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 1 points 9 months ago

I'm not neurodivergant, but I've definitely had to consciously get better at this. Booking regular holidays throughout the year is what helped me, don't just take holiday when you get to screaming pitch. This gives you something to look forward to and hopefully means that you'll be able to decompress before all the various annoyances build up.

I haven't yet found a job that hasn't eventually caused me to burn out, even the relatively chill jobs with little pressure have eventually had enough niggling issues to cause me issues.

Another thing is to not take on more trouble than you are paid for. If managers aren't listening or politics is causing issues then just concentrate on doing your job to the best of your ability and nothing more, when issues start affecting the companies bottom line then they'll take notice.