Oha

Had this happen 2 times already and increasing the max memory seemed to fix it. Does lemmy need that much ressources or am I doing something wrong? I'm on the latest stable version

I just set up my instance and noticed that posts on my Instance dont have the same upvote and comment counts? What couses this and how can I solve it?
Example: https://lemmy.ohaa.xyz/post/151 - 26 Upvotes and 12 Comments
https://lemmy.ml/post/3331957 - 611 Upvotes and 54 Comments

Federation on my instance isnt working although I enabled it. I'm getting this error when I try to search for lemmy communitys on other instances

lemmy-lemmy-1 | at src/root_span_builder.rs:16 lemmy-lemmy-1 | 2023-06-07T15:54:10.678358Z ERROR HTTP request{http.method=GET http.scheme="https" http.host=lemmy.ohaa.xyz http.target=/api/v3/ws otel.kind="server" request_id=4cd438eb-f7ae-4299-baff-4b83a011dafe http.status_code=101 otel.status_code="OK"}: lemmy_server::api_routes_websocket: couldnt_find_object: invalid query lemmy-lemmy-1 | 0: lemmy_apub::fetcher::search::search_query_to_object_id lemmy-lemmy-1 | at crates/apub/src/fetcher/search.rs:17 lemmy-lemmy-1 | 1: lemmy_apub::api::resolve_object::perform lemmy-lemmy-1 | with self=ResolveObject { q: "sdfsdf", auth: Some(Sensitive) } lemmy-lemmy-1 | at crates/apub/src/api/resolve_object.rs:21 lemmy-lemmy-1 | 2: lemmy_server::root_span_builder::HTTP request lemmy-lemmy-1 | with http.method=GET http.scheme="https" http.host=lemmy.ohaa.xyz http.target=/api/v3/ws otel.kind="server" request_id=4cd438eb-f7ae-4299-baff-4b83a011dafe http.status_code=101 otel.status_code="OK" lemmy-lemmy-1 | at src/root_span_builder.rs:16
Im using the docker container with default nginx config behind a caddy reverse proxy on another machine. My instance url if that helps: https://lemmy.ohaa.xyz