Good post.
Despite all the progress in terms of Wayland, I still find my laptop to be unstable with plasma + Wayland on fedora 38. Many visual bugs, when the screensaver is entered and I move my mouse again, the screen just stays black until I close and open the lid.
Some booting and spontaneous shutdown issues too, but I assume that's something else. (Framework 12 DIY)
Personally, I use Bitwig studio. It's. It not Foss, but it's well build, not as expensive as others, and it fulfils the "no Tux no Bux" requirement.