It’s absolutely stirring a pot and its in bad faith. But I’m not creating posts all over and cross posting nonsense because of it.
It’s none of anyone’s fucking business what they do with their instance. None. Period. Done.
Dude said he denied a meeting. I believe him. If someone else didn’t- I don’t fucking care. And I think the fact that this matters so much to you should be a clear indication that you need a hobby. It’s a social media site. Nothing more.
Stop taking this shit so seriously.
Go touch some grass, kid.