SmuttyLad

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[โ€“] SmuttyLad@fedinsfw.app 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Maybe once per month? Probably less. I really tend to prefer audio and text.

Honestly? To a certain extent it makes gendered words fairly useless as broadly descriptive words. Instead it lands on the level of names. The meaning remaining is a word someone chose for themselves. This, in turn, also makes the gender-based words for sexuality broadly useless.

Looking at myself for instance - I could quite possibly be sexually attracted to someone who had fully female sexual characteristics while identifying as a man, whilst I've never found myself attracted to a person with fully male or even someone with a rather small subset of visible male sexual characteristics identifying as a woman.

What does that mean for my sexual orientation? I don't know. I usually describe it as hetero/straight, simply because that is what most often fits and I have more important problems to think about, so good enough.