Thehalfjew

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[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah. It's a movie about surviving. Not winning. And the opening sets up the end.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Cinnamon raisin bagels with lox and cream cheese

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

The polling in question is based on electoral math.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

I don't see disagree about what you said regarding the polls, but by that same token, the fact that they are in a virtual tie should read to you she has a way to win just as she is.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Good thing to remember about builds. Geralt is a sword fighter first and a magic user 18th. Be good at slicey.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I mean, maybe. But flood waters are a massive deathtrap. He had to have known at any second he could step into a strong current and be sucked under. He had no rope. No support. Dude's a hero.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

So these aren't cool mice? Because I was excited when I thought they were cool mice.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I know I'm in the minority, but I really like Genysis. And I can enjoy Salvation when I think of it as a "what if" kind of thing. But T3 and Dark Fate were both hot garbage.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

That demo struck me as a cherry-picked example. Can it work? Sure. Is it always that smooth? I highly highly doubt it.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I see you're getting a lot of answers from both sides of the spectrum. But if you're struggling, I want to help.

Being in a behavior health ward is good for when you can't help yourself anymore, or need significant treatment that's difficult to handle via outpatient (like electroconvulsive treatments). It's not like a hospital stay where you walk out cured of some infection. It's more like a stay in the hospital after a huge car accident. They'll get you stable, they'll set you up with a therapist for long-term recovery, and meds to manage the symptoms.

You're right that talk doesn't fix money problems and things like that. But what it does do is help you keep from suffering alone AND it teaches you how to manage the feelings in a healthier way. That can be the difference between falling apart in the face of money trouble and having the skills to focus on finding a solution--or even just a way to survive.

The thing about depression is that it makes everything feel worthless and hopeless. You have to trust that you can't properly interpret whether a solution will work for you, and that the medical experts you align with are going to have a clearer view of what will help bring you out of the depression.

That doesn't mean all therapists are good. Or that a good therapist for someone else will fit you. But those are problems you can start to manage once you've taken a few steps toward recovery (assuming they turn out to be problems at all).

I've been in therapy for over a decade, on meds for just as long, and once in a ward for a week. Does it suck to be "trapped" in the unit? Yep. It's not a party in there. I don't ever want to go back. But when I did go in, it was because I felt like I legitimately couldn't take care of myself or see a way forward. In that regard, it saved me. So if my biggest complaint is that I felt stuck for a few days, well... so be it.

But there are many other options before being admitted. There are social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists, intensive outpatient programs, ketamine therapy, and more. You may never need to be admitted at all if you can get to treatment before you're completely overwhelmed. Sometimes the solution is incredibly simple, like getting more vitamin D and a proper sleep schedule. Sometimes it takes a little ongoing medicine with weekly talk sessions. Sometimes it's more. But whatever it is, it's worth it. You can be happy in tough situations, but if you're depressed you can't be happy even in good situations. And that's no way to live.

Long story short: if you're depressed you aren't equipped to judge whether a solution will work without trying it, you have very little to lose by trying therapy, and the potential gains are the difference between misery and a fulfilling life. A mental institution is an extreme measure that's only part of a longer-term solution, and you may never need it. But it can be the literal difference between life and death if you're at the end of your rope.

[–] Thehalfjew@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

It blows my mind that so many questions in this community could be instantly answered by Google. Just typing "whinging" gives its definition and identifies it as British.

The question wasn't stupid. But OP was too lazy to even try and do their own research. Which ironically resulted in more work for them.

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