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Can I ask this girl out? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] ThisIsMySecretAccount@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Normally asking her out probably wouldn't even have occurred to me. She said that when she's coming over for lunch, she'd come to the kitchen to say hi. That's kinda what gives me the vibes she's not just being nice to me for her job. If I'm gonna make a move, it's probably then.

Can I ask this girl out? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] ThisIsMySecretAccount@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's what I'm trying to do here yeah thanks for the advice

Can I ask this girl out? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] ThisIsMySecretAccount@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that's my main worry. Putting her in a awkward position. I'm fine with her saying no and it wouldn't be awkward for me afterwards, just don't wanna come over like a prick to her

Can I ask this girl out? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] ThisIsMySecretAccount@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I was thinking about something similar, but I'm of the opinion that straight up talking to a person is always better than just leaving a number. But yeah, I can totally see why it would be inappropriate hence why I'm asking for advice in how to handle this situation. It's difficult, but I know I'll regret it if I don't ask her out somehow at some point

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Can I ask this girl out? (lemmy.world)
 

I need some advice from the internet;

I haven't been dating for quite a few years now, but I'm finally in a position where I can think about this kind of stuff. I'm a chef that regularly visits my local dispensery after work. Partly because of the cute girl working there with whom I've been chatting quite a bit recently. Last week we stood there chatting for over 10 minutes while she left her colleague to help the other customers there. She says her and a friend are coming over to lunch at the place I work at next week. It's not like she's been giving me super obvious signs (or I'm just oblivious to them, which I'm not ruling out), but again, she's super cute.

Is it appropriate for me to ask her out for a drink? I honestly don't know if I should or not. It does feel kinda weird asking someone out at their place of work and I don't want to put her in an awkward situation.