Vanth

joined 1 year ago
[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 7 points 3 months ago

Couples going through a rough patch can open-source their marriage.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 4 points 3 months ago

Aw man, the six-figure salary alpha dude bros are still going to be the only ones getting girls because they're the only ones who can afford multiple subscriptions.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 5 points 3 months ago

I was given one of those. I tried the app once and immediately uninstalled it. It's worthless. The "let's put AI in your computer mouse, toothbrush, and toilet scrubber!" of ten years ago.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 11 points 3 months ago

13 ft Sunfish with Lateen rig. I'm thinking about swapping it to a Bermuda rig just to try it out.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 10 points 3 months ago (3 children)

marriage with chatbots

Subscription- based, I'm sure. We got a divorce because the $7.99 per month plan got jacked up to $12.99 and they started inserting ads!

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 23 points 3 months ago

My extremely progressive by American farmer standards uncle, who has driven a Prius for non-farm travel for over a decade, would probably stare at this article silently, turn, and walk out to the barn to continue working. Just about the harshest response that man ever gives.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It's good you included your location.

In the US, opticians have to provide your script whether you ask for it or not.

I didn't find something as official for Canada with a 5-second web search, but this Ontario College FAQ indicates Canada has something similar.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 1 points 3 months ago

I take a break from caffeine for a week every two months. I do the same with alcohol every month. It helps me stay objective about the amount I'm consuming. It helped me cut way back from pandemic-levels of coffee especially. Hoo, boy, I was one jittery, confined ball of anxiety and despair.

Pro tip: don't schedule both during the same week.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I started a new hot sauce last night. A week or two of fermenting, then finish and bottling, and I expect this one to be on the very spicy end because my fingertips are still burning from handling the peppers yesterday; I really need to get more nitrile gloves.

I like making hot sauces because I can customize each batch. This one will be straightforward and spicy, so it will be a utility player. I have a specific blend I like to make a hot sauce for eggs.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

"Post less" isn't going to help a platform that's still in early days that needs more active posters.

Best I can think of with a 30 second investment of time and thought is:

  1. when you post about your perspective/experience, post knowing it is only your perspective. You speak for no one else.

  2. when other people post with perspectives that differ from yours, default to believing them

(I also feel like these two cover not just blackness, but women and LGBT+ and even white men who don't have the same perspectives as the majority on this white-and-western platform)

Edit: In response to the four guidelines:

Listen more to more Black people

Sounds good but I don't see how this works in practice here. Anyone claiming to be black on an anonymous platform is 50/50 or more likely to be not black. Reddit had an entire "as a black man" sub making fun of people posing as black and the same problem will exist here.

Post less – and think before you post

See above, not what fediverse needs.

Call in, call out, and/or report anti-Blackness when you see it

For sure.

Support Black people and Black-led instances and projects

I have literally never seen an instance identified as black-led, so not sure who to be supporting. It also seems like it would have a similar problem to a topic that starts getting a bit niche. Like, a movie community will do fine, get more niche to a horror movie community and momentum dies out quickly. Horror aficionados are best off posting to the movie community and non-horror people can deal with the occasional post that doesn't inspire them.

Post something to the movie community about black actors and directors in the horror film industry, or about black characters, or about a horror story that is built on (or appropriated from) a black story, hell yeah, I'm in. Don't spin it off to a different community or instance because most will never see it.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 22 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Man, even pirating UFC fights is more effort than it's worth anymore. So much fluff. There's this guy who pirates it, then he edits it down to just the fights and posts it. He's the real champ.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 0 points 3 months ago (3 children)

A neighbor saw me walking barefoot to my mailbox and complimented me on my healthy feet.

Hackles went up thinking he was some foot fetishist who was going to get weird on me. Nope, just a medical person of some sort that works with feet a lot and I genuinely have healthy arches and mobile toes. At least I choose to believe that explanation he gave. Otherwise, I have to assume my neighbor is jerking it every time I walk outside.

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