I agree, the misandry is sickening. Virtually very teenage boy when I was growing up would be unfairly called an incel today, that is part of hormones and boys talking about girls. By making them feel like monsters, society is creating gender disconnect, shame, and dysmorphia, and pushing them to choose between becoming pandering and spineless or vile Andrew Tater-tots (proud of myself for making this up). I don't recall teenage boys worshipping literal violent Islamic rapists in my day but I guess healthy role models are getting harder to come by.
Everything these days has become too extreme:
Trans women are women - full stop!
Wars of self defense are genocide
Only men are rapists when both parties are drunk
The definitions of colonizer, genocide, and famine are magically changed to fit Israel after centuries