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I'm sorry for blowing up on you. It's just that I feel powerless and I feel like it's hard to change anything if I do things more directly. I've been trying to get people involved but it's so hard to get the momentum going that it tends to fizzle out (kinda like c/Philippines). I really wanted free internet to be a thing here in my country (not only that, we pay more for lower quality internet cmp to other countries due to underdeveloped infrastructure) so that it would break the monopoly of facebook but I'm not sure if they're doing their promise. I'm just used to my actions not having an impact unless it was supported by some external circumstance. Like how Lemmy became popular because of an external event.

Apathetic attitude? Not everyone has the privilege of having ever been under an authority figure who actually cares about their job. My university can't even bother to fix their drainage system, my city has had its reputation dragged in the mud on national TV for its shitty (literally) garbage collection system (btw, I still see NOTHING came out from the publicity), even though people have been complaining about these for months. Do you seriously think they'll take my opinion seriously? If I try to rally people to my cause, which would most likely be on Facebook, people would just snarkily say I'm overreacting and that I'm a hypocrite for using Facebook (which is the only way I could reach them in the first place). Even when I complained about the drainage system I was being name-called and insulted by someone who thought that making any demands to a school as a student was being entitled and what did I get out of it? Nothing! Do you think the geriatrics at the upper level even care about privacy or information? They still admire Elon Musk and Mark Zuckerberg goddammit! Have you ever had to really fight for a cause? Because you are painting an unrealistic landscape that I've never been able to see my entire life.

It is not feasible unfortunately, and if I were to put that as a complaint, I would most likely be called unhinged, out-of-touch, or trying to discard a perfectly usable system. We can only raise questions and influence people as of now. Besides, the reason why Messenger is popular is because of the freebasics service which allows people to use Messenger for free.

Vulnerable people tend to be the target of abusive ones. They'll basically reinforce that vulnerable person's beliefs from their experiences to say they shouldn't risk anything but to stick with that abusive partner. So they tend to reinforce the focus more on anyone else being oppressive, to create a sense of "why should you bother?" Also those women who care so much about height tend to be assholes. I saw those types from Twitter a long time ago and I would roll their eyes whenever they, at the same time, sexualise asian men or are outspoken about racism even though asian men tend to be shorter. Also one thing that's almost a parallel to the manosphere are the radfems (or at least they call themselves that way, because whatever they are seems different from what radical feminism is supposed to be). A lot of these radfems tend to just only see men in a bioessentialist or utilitarian way, because they think men are incapable of genuine connection. And it too, is a pipeline of sorts (which I encountered firsthand through Pinterest) because they start with women voicing out real concerns, to "rule of thumbs", to defending the use of generalised language such as "men are...", until they become prejudiced and start seeing individual men as only a part of a greater whole for this perceived collective identity of a "man".

Can't it be any more clear to everyone?

I'm pretty much forced to use Facebook and Messenger because of school. Some teachers will grade you only if you upload your work and tag them on Facebook, sometimes you have to repost or like videos because your project is a video and there's a group competition based on those metrics. Messenger is the default mode of communication between students and teachers, as well as a way to contact people for your graded surveys.

The ones most important to me are:

tagging features, tagging hotmaps for communities, search by tag, comments from crossposts is combined to the viewer (there's a divider to show which community),

when someone posts from a certain instance like beehaw you get a reminder about their community standards, user flairs

less resources needed to load stuff (great for third-worlders like me), post and comment subscriptions, feeds (something similar to a multireddit)

topic categories (do note that topic ≠ community) like Regional > Asia > Philippines in which each topic category shows all posts made by communities in the category. For example if you are in Topic: Regional you get posts from all regional communities, in Topic: Asia you get posts from all communities based on Asia.

Not Vegan, But: Probably needs a rest day in between workout days, adequate sleep or a calorie surplus. If he's up for it, he should get his nutrient levels checked. There's also this problem where people on the internet set unrealistic expectations of how fast your gains should be.

Yeah, I just made the switch to piefed some days ago. Isn't there a saying don't put all your eggs in one basket? My first accounts were on kbin and fmhy.ml, but they're not around anymore. I made the switch to lemmy.world, then learned about piefed and since I like the features it had I made the switch to it.

There's being neurodivergent too. My mom said I was a hothead when I was a young kid. I have ADHD btw.

The fediverse in general is like the Wild West of the internet.