baconmonsta

joined 6 days ago
[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago

I understand what you mean, and agree that not everything needs to be put in words. At the same time though, it's really healthy to expose yourself to others even if you just write "I like the way you formulated this." or "Makes sense, I hadn't thought of it like this before". That way it turns into a real discussion - a bit like in the real 3d world.

Up/ downvoting is basically anonymous and adds nothing to the discussion.

And, sometimes, other users misunderstand our comments, and then we need to respond to them to get our point through. All of this is a healthy way to challenge our thinking.

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

What do you mean with chat control BS? Care to share a link?

That being said, there are a lot of worrying politicians out there.

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 1 points 3 hours ago

I don't understand what your article has to do with privacy. I understood that is the framework of this conversation. Yes, there's a lot of scary rightwing policing in Germany, but can we stay on topic?

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 0 points 3 hours ago (9 children)

I feel like at least in Germany privacy matters are alive and kicking thanks to GDPR / DSGVO

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 2 points 4 hours ago

The problem with regulation is that most of these data giants are US companies, and due to regulatory capture since the 1980s you can't expect much to change there.

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 1 points 4 hours ago

Amazing! I did not expect that outcome from my comment

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 9 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I'm no expert, but I feel like anywhere they use an algorithm to drive up "engagement" it leads into people being fed rage-bait and then them acting accordingly. This "attention economy" needs to end somehow.

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 28 points 6 hours ago

He does anything to make the Epsein circus go away

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 4 points 6 hours ago (5 children)

That function doesn't seem to function properly btw. I have tried with "meme" and "politics" and communities with those words in them still keep popping into my feed on PieFed.

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 3 points 8 hours ago (4 children)

I appreciate you putting it into words instead of just upvoting

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 11 points 16 hours ago (6 children)

Up/Downvoting is so 2015. Instead, comment on any interesting posts, and especially the ones with zero comments. This platform is meant to be about discussion, and not just mindlessly sharing links or memes.
I, personally, am more inclined to check out a post if it has at least one (non-bot, non OP) comment.

[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 1 points 18 hours ago

That's a good quote.

Also props for recognizing your own people-pleasing tendencies. And I'm glad to hear you've worked on it. It takes time to understand what causes us to be like that. It might be out of fear of rejection or some other unwanted outcome. And it could be based on some irrational assumptions or beliefs.

To be able to accept any outcome in any situation is very difficult, but a strong foundation for confidence and inner peace.

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