bobbyfiend

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[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"I have no response to that."

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Wait, in the first one it looks like the S has a cape.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Assuming this is a reasonable representation of public opinion in the two countries (and I don't yet have reason to assume otherwise, despite the neoliberal position of the founders of the institute commissioning the survey), I now think it would be interesting to see a breakdown, country by country, of the discrepancy between public perception of democracy and independent observers' ratings of democracy in those same countries.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

As a man, I've found this applies to almost any traditionally* feminine activity.

  • "Traditional" is a red herring, quagmire, and propagandum with gender roles. What is "traditional" for men vs women shifts around over time and place, and within cultures and subcultures. I actually mean something like "hegemonic" or "stereotypical within your specific cultural milieu."
[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Thank you for typing this all out. It was lovely and inspiring to read.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thinking one step further: Even if I somehow got into MENSA (unlikely), I can't imagine ever saying, "I see you have a MENSA discount..." ugh.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 week ago

Don't forget racists. Plenty of those are drawn to the Mensa labels, too.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 week ago

This is worth the entire post and more. I'm chuckling while my kid gives me weird looks from the other room.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This goes a bit deep. Seems like it's going to be about customers being too stupid to figure things out, but it ends up for me a story about engineers not accurately anticipating customers' needs.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

10 years ago I wouldn't have imagined this, but this is me every time I have to use Windows (e.g., occasionally for work) or help someone else with it.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 weeks ago

According to almost every photo I take, about 3 degrees off.

Pretty sure this is a psychophysics question, though I don't know that field well enough to know what's there.

[–] bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

If it helps, you're not alone. I've spent decades of my life pursuing a career, and in the past five or so years I've come to realize I will never accomplish the things I used to dream about, like making an impact in my little field, etc. It's a really, really unpleasant realization. The only silver lining I can find for myself (and it is helpful) is that I can let go of the "must excel" and "must go above and beyond" mentalities. It frees up time and mental resources.

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In light of recent ICE/DHS shenanigans in the US

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