detectivesniffles

joined 10 months ago

this is such a grossly uncharitable interpretation you can not be serious right now

i don't really know the general consensus around here but my take is that vehicles are massively useful tools but that personalized vehicles are causing and have caused massive problems. the vast majority of people don't need them (if public transportation wasn't terrible) but i wouldn't expect firefighters to take the bus down to a burning house for example

yeah discord is kinda fucking annoying on linux for that reason. i'd recommend something like vencord (vesktop) over discord's client

2024 belongs to the lemmings 😤😤😤

this has been my experience with paulgo.io with the exception of images, which i sometimes have to use google for

[–] detectivesniffles@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

inversely, you aren't the same person as the one that fell in love with her. you are both different people now and you even have a relationship now that will shape you even further :]. part of it is accepting like the other commenter pointed out: human minds are weird

[–] detectivesniffles@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (7 children)

I don’t love her, I don’t want to be with her, I don’t want her in my life.

are you sure about that? there must be something about her that pervades your mind and compells you to (want to) invite her for coffee, not to mention the stalking. i know this comes off as inflammatory, but i think it's important to consider the possibility that you are in denial; after all, you absolutely have a vested interest in those 3 statements being true