eldavi

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[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

i did for halloween and that's the only holiday i celebrate. i throw in dia de los muertos just to extend it a few more days and i take vacation days off for it as well.

when it's halloween: i put costumes on my pets; decorate my home with renter friendly decor; and then redecorate again one day 1 of dia de los muertos with a shrine to the people i've loved in the past with pictures and keepsakes that were once theirs and then add prayer candles similar to these with lgbt & other notable figures like devine, mlk jr, james baldwin, malcom x, marsha p johnston, matthew shepherd, harvey milk, etc. and i put the star trek delta or idic instead of the crucifix, but i keep the statuette of the lady of guadalupe.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The last 2 reddit userbase diasporas were wildly more different than all of the previous ones combined.

When voat became a thing everyone already knew ahead of time that it's ranks would be filled with facists; but it took a while for lemmy to earn its tankie stereotype and I'm also glad that lemmy's design helps ensure that it'll have more stamina that voat or any of the other reddit user digital refugee camp platforms that came before it.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 54 points 1 week ago (7 children)

The last time I was a team lead, I would sit in on meetings and whenever this one admin assistant was present she would complain about an analyst's appearance saying things like he looked disheveled because his shirt had some wrinkles; but he was very much silicon-valley/california-shabby-chic fashioned for the time.

We got bought out by a bank complete with stereotypical old fashioned management and dinosaur sensibilities from the East Coast. She brought up the analyst again during one of our meetings that included the new management and the analyst was fired the next day.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's partially because there's no one to rent it. the locals tell me that it's trending towards the same patterns that i've experienced in other cities; but it still affordable compared to the cities i've lived in texas, new jersey and georgia and despite it being the 3rd largest city in the country and COMPLETELY outclassing those other cities in terms of quality of life and public services. (for now).

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml -2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

i'm happy to see the empty apartments where i live; it means that it helps drive down the cost of rent and it's working, somewhat.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

there are more vacant homes that homeless people in my country and that fact is so incendiary to our sensibilities that it enshitifies things like google so; when you look up this fact; all of the results are going to lead you to explanations as to why it's misleading and that there aren't enough "appropriate" homes for homeless people.

all of the articles are hoping couch the unspoken classism divisions as "nuanced arguments" so when they say that there aren't enough "appropriate" homes for homeless people; it's dog-whistle-implying that homeless people don't deserve the same desirable homes that can earn profit for the capitalists and that it's the state's responsibility to "deal" with them; amongst other dog whistles.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 52 points 1 week ago (22 children)

that fact that we more empty homes degrading from abandonment into nothingness in this country than homeless people is surest sign that we have terrible system.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

during the hiv/aids crisis; people who had spare bedrooms; or could afford to cook extra meals; or took it upon themselves to distribute those extra meals; or volunteer basic healthcare services for free (ie candy stripers); etc. would put up "help offered" posters in gay safe spaces with contact information on them. the posters where mostly hand made back then, but i've seen a more modern day version of it with home printers and the bottom section of the paper scored off so that people can rip off and take the contact information with them and i've seen a newer version of that with the mutual aid community in hexbear: https://hexbear.net/c/mutual_aid

any leftist safe space, both virtual and real. will have something like this; seek them out and you can ask someone in person what you can do to help that's tailored to you circumstances. (and to set your expectations: it's probably going to suck a lot; that's why they need the help)

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the last time i was in a position like yours i almost learned the hard way to make documentation to protect yourself.

the next time you and your boss have a conversation on security things like that windows 7 computer; tell him that you're going to send an email at the end of the conversation restating what he told you to do; then send that email; and then use your smartphone to take a picture of the email. (time stamps are important so make sure that the phone's picture metadata is enabled and they're usually on by default or make sure that the picture includes something with the date & time on it like a calendar on your computer).

do this for anything security related like passwords or administrator access. if you have a good boss, they'll realize that you feel like you need to protect yourself and they'll start making changes.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I think I can see the confused part; but I don't get mean.

My comment was an overall anecdotal estimation of my experiences of using windows and Linux on the same laptop. I noticed that the battery life while using Linux was significantly shorter than using windows on the same laptop. My battery life experience w my first core boot laptop seems to be on par w my windows laptop.

Also I get mean a lot; I tend to commit a lot of faux pas and people are usually too angry w me to let me understand what I said/did. I have no idea what I did for the label this time around as well and I hope you'll tell me.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

in latin america they were nice to the white passing americans like me that i was traveling with at the time and not so much to me because my words said that i was was sorry, but things like my facial expression; or body language; or intonation said otherwise and i can't imagine how similar situations would work out if i didn't even have the words.

also that and other related experiences over the decades teaches me that the benefit of the doubt comes rare once i've committed that faux pas and the local version of "sorry" by itself doesn't work well if they're angry about the perceived transgression.

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