hoshikarakitaridia

joined 1 year ago

No.

You have a kid, but it's your decision.

Sounds like she's trying to skip the part where she fucked up and she should apologize to you and give you some space. Instead she's leaving you an impossible choice.

But you can talk to your son and tell him how much it stings and that you just can't do it. Sure you can "put all the bad blood behind" but it takes two for that and you can't force someone to reconcile by pressuring them with their son and luring them with a paid for vacation.

This makes me mad for you, this is so unfair. No one has to take that offer, and your son will understand. Maybe your ex will understand too, but it looks like she's still too immature to understand right now.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Really hard to give advice when there's a lot of factors involved, like:

  • how long have you been together with your kid and your second wife?
  • did she know what she was signing up to?
  • how much time are you dedicating to her vs to the kid?

And then, jealousy is a subjective feeling. Now because you know how she feels, if you are spending basically no time with her then you might be able to carve out some more time for the both of you, but the main part of dealing with the feels is on her. Growing a better connection to you or the kid is also on her. And communication is key. Relationships are hard and complicated, that's why you gotta talk a lot.

Lovely game tbh, can recommend if you just wanna have something to do for a while without thinking too much.

Ahsoka Tano.

She is driving everyone crazy but she cares so much, and empathize with her so much.

Man, the clone wars really fucked me up didn't it...

This one is far more important than it seems: take care of you nips! At longer distances they can get bruised so bandaids or similar things are advised.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah none of this is good advice generally.

A person who just made a suicide attempt nedds routine and normality but with a lot of friendly interactions sprinkled throughout that.

Sometimes family can even be one of the reasons a person gets so driven to go that far.

So cutting off contact and potentially making his family put even more pressure on him is one of the worst things you could do.

Cutting off contact only helps if you can't handle the situation or the person anymore, and that still doesn't help them, it just shields you from mental stress.

If this sounds like retaliation, that's probably a good reason to get your union involved.

Either there is more to the story you're not telling us, or your manager and that coworker are absolute assholes. Maybe even both.

Ok well fuck that CeO with a rusty spoon then.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

I mean making someone ineligible to be president for as long as he is under investigation for insurrection, treason or other crimes against the United States sounds pretty straightforward.

He could always wait and get back into it the next cycle if the investigation gets dropped or if he's proven innocent.

Don't like it, can't change a lot of it.

Some stuff I can replace with open source software, but a lot of stuff will always be proprietary and opaque. I kinda just have to deal with that.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It is by choice. Prominent developers made that choice because they thought it might eliminate a lot of the popularity incentives reddit creates.

Now I don't agree with that choice, but many others here do. I don't think this solves the incentive issues but just makes instances a bit more of a wild western and requires moderators to do more work figuring out what to make of an account.

Maybe it would be great if this is still an option you could turn on / off per instance or something.

 

I switched to Windows 11 about a year ago. A few months ago my PC started randomly crashing and rebooting, without any blue screens.

Am I the only one? Does someone know anything about this?

Pretty sure I can rule out power surges or overheating or stuff like that. There's been no indication. The system log is empty as well, apart from Windows being annoyed that it just got restarted without any notice.

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