I haven't looked thoroughly because at the end of the day I have like ..another 2 years of airvpn credit and I'm happy enough with them that I could make a separate server for a website....maybe with the rock pi 5a I bought that I haven't touched. My current server is mostly for media and...uhh...sailing, as well as syncing devices (sync thing), running a telegram bot, etc. I could use the pi for more public stuff. And not use a VPN.
If you find a solution though, let me know!
I've been using it for probably 5+ years and it's been great. I wish I could port forward to incoming 80 in my server so I could run a site while it's up, but at the end of the day I can always run a site elsewhere.
That aside, it's never gone down on me, the speeds are fast, it auto-connects to the best server available, and they run lots of promos.
So you might be interested in this. I think it's geared towards realtime jamming though. I've never used it but the same dev is the creator of the DAW Reaper. I've heard it's limited but I think it handles the latency issue pretty well.
Now, reaper itself is very extensible. You can script in it with Lua, eel, python, or c++. Someone a year or so ago brought in the ability to make network calls, and I believe there are people working on collaborative tools but I'd have to go back and look through the forums/discord to see what the state of it is. I have a friend who started making a very ambitious collaborative plugin but I believe he has stopped the project.
I'll see if I can dig up any info on it if any one is interested!
Noticed this too and it's annoying as ferk. It's messed up many a queue between my wife and i