midimalist

joined 1 year ago
[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 10 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Ghosting someone (multiple really) when I just couldn't handle all the things they expect me to do. It's childish and very much my own mistake for not being clear with my boundary and overestimating my mental energy.

Slowly making it up one person to the next.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 9 months ago

You just gotta prepare something for their birthday next year. No need for something big, just thoughtful. Add a sincere apology or two and I'm sure they will appreciate it.

I also tend to forget someone's birthday other than my partner and immediate family so I just put them in my calendar. No more accidentally forget about friends' birthday, unless I'm really busy and my ADHD acting up.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Can I be your friend?

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 5 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I'm very interested, would like to have family dinner tradition too when/if I start a family. I just don't have any idea how to start. Can you tell me more how does the routine go? Like, who is responsible for what? Do you cook/buy dinner? What are the do's and don'ts while having dinner? How to enforce it while making sure everyone enjoy this routine? What kind of obligations are okay as an excuse to not participate?

I know it's too many questions, just the gist of it is fine.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 10 points 9 months ago

I guess you're kind enough to do that.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Do you have any good resource for beginner to learn about this?

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The last time I check it out, it doesn't have public transportation yet, at least for my area/country. Otherwise, I like it better than Google Maps already.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 10 months ago

In general, I mostly focus on pet > plants > bathroom > kitchen > everything else.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (6 children)

Wait, I don't get it. The alternative that the guy propose sounds like a win-win though? What if one of them likes vacuuming twice a week and the other once every month? What's the right way to divide it fairly?

(I'm a woman who vacuum as needed.)

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

As a leecher with atrocious upload speed. Thank you so much for your service.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 14 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Yes, because I need Adobe to do my meh wage part-time job in developing country from my one and only working laptop and I don't have the luxury of surplus money, time, and mental energy to do anything about it.

But I get your point. If I have the means, I will fix my broken Thinkpad and definitely install Linux there the first chance I get. Either that or Adobe finally release Linux version, which will probably be released after Half-Life 3.

I can't wait to try Endeavor (so I can finally be an obnoxious person who say "I used Arch^-based^ ^distro^, btw")

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 1 year ago

I'm still waiting until I forget more about the game so I can play it again.

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