nicetriangle

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[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 3 points 9 months ago

Huh good to know. Thanks for the details!

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Definitely sucks trying to find good content in other languages. I'm a native english speaker, but live in the EU now and I'd like to watch more content in the local language to help with my learning. It's just difficult to come by.

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 4 points 9 months ago (10 children)

Really? I've heard it kinda sucks these days. I used to use it years back though and am a big Firefox supporter.

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yep I remember this pattern of behavior distinctly from last time.

One of the big ones that sticks out is you start seeing a lot of people claiming to be democrats or left aligned showing up all of a sudden and being big time concern trolls and talking about sitting out the election and/or claiming that there's no difference between voting democrat or republican, which is demonstrably absolute horse shit.

And just a lot of added vitriol. It seems like even politically unrelated discussions get meaner and more argumentative. I expect it's just gonna get worse as we get closer to November. It's only the beginning February. Ugh.

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 12 points 9 months ago (5 children)

Yeah I've encountered a few accounts lately who either have mental health issues or are bots designs to stir discord. Their entire posting history is divisive shit stirring.

Funny how every 4 years the internet gets markedly nastier. I wonder why???

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 14 points 9 months ago

You love to see it

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 14 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

This is that fucking leach of a company that has been buying up shitloads of single family homes around the US to extort insane rent out of everybody.

If this slimy fuck doesn't like the current admin, then it must be doing something right.

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 43 points 9 months ago (3 children)

I think feminism is becoming indistinguishable from leftism.

There might be a reason for that. Where on the right are you hearing strong advocacy for women's rights and equality?

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

As a man myself I'm just having a hard time sympathizing with other men who grief at a term like "mansplaining" and in that find the justifications for disregarding the crux of what feminism seeks to make right. Is the term thrown around too much? Sure, I bet it is. So are a lot of absolutely vile quips about women. I can empathize with why some women are as verbally antagonistic towards men as they are.

To your other point. Are women underrepresented in STEM fields because they lack the ability to tackle those problems or because women have been historically directed away from those sorts of professions for as long as we have history to look back on?

You can play some of this off to less women wanting X or Y job, but if you cannot acknowledge men holding 9 out of 10 CEO positions in fortune 500 companies as maybe being a symptom of major structural imbalances in favor of men, I do not know what to tell you. I've watched women be professionally undermined throughout the entirety of my working life.

Also I missed your edit on your previous comment:

(I think that people’s opinion about feminism is commonly their opinion about self-identified feminists. It’s fair to say “I believe feminism is harmful because the opinions I have heard self-identified feminists express have often seemed ridiculous, offensive, or counterproductive” without needing a definition of feminism that goes beyond self-identification.)

Would it be then fair to say that, men broadly speaking are harmful because a not insignificant group of men rape about 16% of the female population? I think judging any group wholesale by the actions of it's most extreme cohort is problematic. And in this case we're talking about words women said that made some guys feel bad.

I just don't buy into the counter argument to feminism and I think this quote sums up how a lot of men are feeling about the topic right now.

When you're accustomed to privilege equality feels like oppression.

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I feel like more of the arguments are careful not to go there, more that society in general just doesn’t care that much about men’s emotional world.

As a man I feel like the main people to blame for this are men both now and historically. So many of us were raised with this macho bullshit hold-it-all-in thing and our parents' generation were even worse about it and theirs even worse still.

[–] nicetriangle@kbin.social 1 points 9 months ago (3 children)

The definition I found that popped up on google pretty well sums up what I have always heard women say.

The advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes

It's really that simple. It's not a women over men movement. It's a movement to receive the same respect, rights, and inclusion that men have enjoyed basically forever. They want the right to make decisions about their body. They'd like to maybe not be victims of sexual assault and rape and staggering percentages (about 1 in 6 American women will be raped in their lifetime). They'd like to have a better chance at corporate leadership (10% of fortune 500 CEOs are women). They'd like to have more of a footprint in government (roughly 28% of the US congress is female and this is a record high).

They just want equity and respect and they deserve it.

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