revelrous

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[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 months ago

I've deleted my account, but for twitter was nice for a run to get notifications on local road closures and weather alerts. Sigh.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hm. You seem to contain multitudes. Perhaps literally.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Absolutely rage bait. Imo the language might read as non combative, but in application it feels like just a blind to slip a ban. Read through some of their exchanges with Mx. SMCF; it's pointing a hand in somebody's face and using the 'I'm not touching you' of defenses.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 months ago

Wait. There are places where your primary party is not public knowledge when you vote? Fuuuck. (it's usually a fire hall, not a lodge in my experience.)

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 32 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Older women in my family—with the best of intentions, have pleaded with me to overlook abusive, violent men at home because men just can't help the way they are and it's a woman's job to forget and make peace.

These are people that fundamentally don't think they have a right to baseline respect in their own homes by the people who supposedly loved them most. They'd need a decade's worth of therapy just to find their best interests, and then another to act on them.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 7 points 3 months ago

I have never done a similar despicable thing once my shit landlord stopped performing maintenance on multiple building's units and they started eating money. Never hurts to look up the manual.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 2 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Does everyone think those space suits are sexy or is it an American thing?

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 26 points 3 months ago (2 children)

The best people tell me Hillary Clinton had a tamagotchi just like it. So sad. So sad.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 5 points 3 months ago

Imo she's trying to shield progressives from being the scapegoat, like how we got the blame for dem dysfunction in '16.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 months ago

+1 for sopuli. Chill, only defederates from meta, nazis and sketchy porn.

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 4 points 4 months ago

But they're not really disconnected? Sometimes abortion is the treatment for PPP and PPD. I know people don't want to hear it. But it is true. Some people are not equipped to handle the pregnancy and birth, and to stay sane they need the out. Any barriers you put between them and their treatment makes these events more likely to happen.

There was an American woman-whose name I forget but doubtless others will remember, who under the pressure of her fundamentalist christian husband kept having kids, and had PPD after each, and it was worse every time. She had counseling, she had anti-psychotics, her episodes were documented, but she was in an environment where she was pressured to carry to term. With her last pregnancy her PPD gave her religious delusions that her children were going to end up in Hell so she drown them all in a bathtub to save their souls. Pregnancy can be fraught on a healthy and willing person, what kind of pressure do you think it puts on someone who isn't?

[–] revelrous@sopuli.xyz 5 points 4 months ago

It is a bit depressing how many guys in this thread don't understand what pregnancy and childbirth can do to someone. Side effects may include: suicidal and homicidal urges. Google Postpartum Psychosis and Postpartum Depression.

Everyone is asking but why didn't she act in a sane way and give it up for adoption? Well, there are good odds she needed something prescribed to her to allow her to be sane. Pregnant people's bodies are undergoing major chemical changes, labor opens the floodgates. Which is why it is very important to make it easy and stigma free to let everyone out of the queue who does not want to ride the ride, and make healthcare accessible to those that do.

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