throwaway789

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I'm ignoring him in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Awwww, are you doing okay?

I'm ignoring him in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
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I'm ignoring him (lemmings.world)
 

He was more focused on what I could provide and do for him than having an actual, loving relationship that went both ways. I have enough worth and I surely don't deserve that. Played with me, strung me along, didn't want me yet still kept me around?? My friends all say that's messed up, I should listen to the advice and just ignore him like I'm doing. people are right. He is not my friend, I'm just his pet to keep around when it's convenient.

Can you give me some encouragement? Deciding to stay friends with my BF but don’t want to make him cry in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 2 points 4 weeks ago

Thank you, I get it

Can you give me some encouragement? Deciding to stay friends with my BF but don’t want to make him cry in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 5 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Thanks so much, he didn't even seem that upset when we broke up

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Can you give me some encouragement? Deciding to stay friends with my BF but don’t want to make him cry (lemmings.world)
 

I decided it would be better if we stayed friends, though I would still support and help him. Maybe if he starts liking my interests and becomes more mentally well, we could date again but for now IDK.