yesman

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[–] yesman@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

This article makes some salient points and recognizes modern conditions. However, the thesis seems to be "women's freedom to choose divorce is bad for men". Which is familiar to anyone who's been around conservatives. It's kind of odd that they don't mention the harms women's freedom causes society and children. But otherwise this is identical to what the Baptists and Catholics have been saying since forever.

The article suggests that people who have partners who've "checked out" aren't doing a good job, but they don't dwell on that like they do the trauma of an unexpected divorce.

Reads like sane-washed incel shit to me.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 83 points 19 hours ago (13 children)

The idea that losers abuse substances is the one of the dumbest correlation/causation mistakes. Almost as stupid as "black people are more likely to be criminal".

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 10 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

This is a common experience. But before you listen to the gender war bullshit about how it's just not fair to be a man, consider some of the other explanations.

I've been abandoned, and I've been the friend who chose the girl. And I've learned some important things.

  1. it's the couple who forces friends to choose. most people would keep both relationships, but people going through breakups are myopic and insist.

  2. I chose to be friends with the girl because she was a better friend. Not because I was endorsing her grievances.

  3. I can't blame my friends for choosing my ex. I would have abandoned any of them for her.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] yesman@lemmy.world -1 points 20 hours ago

We don't understand how the brain functions. Neuroscientists know that serotonin has something to do with it because some drugs effect serotonin production/ absorption/ re-uptake and they also effect mood, but they don't understand the mechanism.

Even the idea that consciousness and the "self" are located in the brain isn't as well founded as you might think. It might be a continuation of the concept of "duality" where the body and "mind" are separate. Same idea behind a soul.

Anyway, we don't understand consciousness which would be prerequisite to explain altered consciousness.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world -4 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Everyone who eats animals or who "owns" one is contributing to the suffering and abuse. Animals are not a lifestyle choice. You shouldn't own your friends.

I eat meat and have pets. I'm just tired of pretending that the vegans didn't win this "debate" 40 years ago. All in a vein effort to spare my hypocritical feelings.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 25 points 21 hours ago (12 children)

I don't own a gun. It's has nothing to do with politics. I'm a suicide risk; I don't need a ticket to the bullet train.

The problem is that many, maybe most people are like me. They shouldn't have a gun. If others were self-aware like me, shit like this would be much more rare. I think you shouldn't be able to buy a gun unless every member of the household can pass a gun safety test. Including the pets.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 6 points 22 hours ago

Billionaires and policymakers have AI psychosis and they deserve our sympathy and help. Articles like this are a psyop to keep them calm.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (3 children)

His intended audience is Iran. He's terrified of being made to look weak or get a worse deal than Obama. And he's aware that time is on their side. Look at his comments about escalating the conflict: Iran is "taking too long to come to a deal". He's obsessed with getting a deal quick, but also not giving in.

He's in a loose/loose position and former presidents in this situation are responsible for the Vietnam war.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

She reminds me of Tucker Carlson. Both were raised to prominence behind a more famous person being laid low. And both were felled in exactly the same way their predecessor was.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 59 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If all communism is soviet, then all capitalism is colonialism and chattel slavery.

 

I'm in the bottom half of Appalachia, if it's a regional thing.

 
 
 
 

All anyone cares about is which powerful man gets embarrassed. And I recon it's more likely that Maxwell will get out early than any predator gets jail.

There were HUNDREDS of victims; it went on for decades; and nobody gives a tiny shit. Have you heard anybody propose a law, a task force, even a blue ribbon commission to find out how this happened or make sure nobody does this again? Are their any more resources for victims because of this?

Our society accepts that men of wealth are entitled to abuse people. And sexual abuse is all in the game. Because at the end of the day our legal system is constructed to protect these people from the rabble, not hold them to account.

A pedophile is political designation to strip rights, dignity, and legitimacy from enemies. Children being harmed is beside the point.

 

12/13/03 A date that will live in infamemey.

 
 
 

I own Windows 11 and my computer and preferred OS (Fedora) support TPM and Secure boot. Is it worth the time to configure that stuff to run W11, or should I just continue to run W10 since I don't do anything but run a couple games?

I have a robust backup, so even a system wide Nuke is a day's worth of re-installing, worst case.

Honestly, since I boot W10 so rarely, it'll kinda be nice not to have to update it every time.

 
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