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I feel like a loser (alien.top)

submitted 1 year ago by Plane-Neighborhood58@alien.top to c/entrepreneur@indiehackers.space

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Although I have accomplished quite a bit in my short lifetime, I’m going through a stage where I feel like a loser.

I’ve been slacking off and honestly kind of board with my business. It’s at the point where I can get by without doing much work.

Everytime I come back to my hometown my family just doesn’t get it. They don’t understand my entrepreneurial mindset.

I’m 21 years old and I’ve built an online fitness coaching business.

I’ve generated multiple six figures over the last 2-3 years.

I decided I was finished with college after my freshman year and wanted to pursue my business all the way.

I moved to San Diego and I’ve been there for about two years.

Although most people would say you’re doing amazing and killing it.

I know I could be doing better.

I want a bigger opportunity, I want to work harder, and develop a vision so huge it scares me.

I feel like my next evolution is coming up but right now I’m in the growing pains where I feel a little lost and unsure of what’s next.

I have a few ideas and I’m testing out the market for them but it’s an uncomfortable period.

I feel like I’m just coasting and not growing. It’s not a fun place to be.

Any advice?

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[–] cyclist_____@alien.top 1 points 1 year ago

Similarly positioned 29yr old here, to OP, maybe focus on health(fall in love with the gym), and travel. Exploring a brand new city during times of uncertainty is a pleasant combatant to that feeling of inadequacy. Also enrolling in a new physical discipline that you don't practice but steadily curious about, may help in these scenarios.

Staying busy is the biggest advice though, feeling like " I'm a loser" often comes during times of idleness, never at the time of strenuous physical exertion, or unprecedented achievement, or when you're learning something new. this is all said in respect of the fact that you out earn me hahaha.

This feeling shall pass & I wish you well !