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[–] philanthropicoctopus@thelemmy.club 42 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Surprisingly I live in a normal house but my in laws are incapable of downsizing, instead opting to throw another shipping container on the driveway when they get more stuff

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

What? Please tell me I'm interpreting this wrong.

They're buying just random stuff(basically clutter), in quantities to fill shipping containers, multiple times? How can they afford it even?

[–] philanthropicoctopus@thelemmy.club 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Kind of.

When I moved in they cleared a few of the rooms which lead to another two containers. They turned the garage into a bedroom which again, all that stuff went into containers. They do add more stuff over time slowly too.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 1 points 6 hours ago

Damn, i feel for you bro. You have patience of a saint.

[–] imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

oh wow, that sounds unpleasant!

[–] philanthropicoctopus@thelemmy.club 24 points 1 day ago (4 children)

It is. Its caused me a great deal of stress over the last 2 years but I've found the best solution is to realize its out of my control and just be a good man for my partner and a good father for my daughter. No point losing sleep over things out of my control. Easier said than done sometimes

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Some time in the distant future, you will have far less sorting and disposing of things you do not want or need. You will merely need to call a truck to haul the containers away and have it all auctioned off.

Source: I have settled 2 estates. My parents and a great aunt. It's a miserable job going through a lifetime's collection of "stuff".

Yeah

This sounds real savage but I've given up on the idea they will fix this themselves so I'm resigned to the fact it'll me us that has to do it once they are gone.

[–] ChilledPeppers@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I actually thought you work in a container ship or something. This is insane. Who even needs three containers full of stuff? They are absolutrly destroying their property for just some more storage space.

[–] NotEasyBeingGreen@slrpnk.net 8 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I admire your priorities, although you may want to consider that your daughter is learning that this is normal and okay, which it is not. 😬

I completely agree. At this point in time my take home pay isn't enough for us to move out. Once my daughter is at school and my partner gets a job we'll move out

[–] Blurntout@lemmy.ca 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

My friend have you met existential dread?

Yep

The house is full of shit too. I've just had to let it go to some degree. The first year living here was a real challenging adjustment