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There was somebody posting these lyrics in other community as something that spoke to them:

You know, suicide isn’t painless,
When you leave everyone in pain.
NOFX - Doornails

Anybody has the right to have any lyrics - or any thing really - to mean whatever it needs to mean to them. But...

I lost a dear colleague and friend to suicide just a week ago and I am myself passively suicidal. Bullying people that contemplate ending their suffering into staying alive or tainting the names and acts of those that already did is just not the way to go.

Edit: this is not critique towards the person who commented those lyrics, but against ~~that artist and~~ society in general.

I just had to rant. Feel free to believe or react in any way that feels right to you.

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[–] Jesus_666@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I see it as a counterpoint to one specific thing some suicidal people believe: That they're a burden, that everyone would be better off without them, and that their suicide will do those around them a favor. It most likely won't; it will just hurt them.

That being said, suicide is a massively complex topic and there's a huge difference between e.g. someone with a terminal disease who uses assisted suicide to pass on with dignity and someone whose inner demons talk them into believing their continued existence has no worth. No argument ever applies to all situations.

[–] akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

I agree. Thanks for illuminating the differences and the complexity of the matter! I'd even add that it's a spectrum in some sense. For instance, one could be fighting their inner demons and be tormented by an incurable disease.