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Advice for moving to NY? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 week ago by ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

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I would like to move to NY for reasons. Doesn't have to be the city, thought in or near (or generally metropolitan) preferred, and I would like to move as soon as realistically and feasibly possible (I'm not getting rid of all my shit, hopping on a plane, and arriving in NYC, even if that is as soon as possible).

I'm not really sure how to do this. I know I need to look into apartments or places to stay in general, and also look into getting a job once I'm up there or before I arrive. I am currently in college, so I would also need to look into colleges to transfer into. The thing is, I don't know where to start looking. I mean, sure I could look up "apartments in NY" and "community colleges in NY" but the internet is AI generated nowadays and listicles and apartments.com doesn't give the whole story. When I moved into my current city, I asked for advice and suggestions on Reddit and got a lot of help (been staying in the same apartment complex for the last 4 years that someone from there recommended actually), so I figured, fuck it let me do the same here.

I guess my more solid questions would be:

What apartments should I look into? Any suggestions for it?
What colleges should I check out that would be covered by FAFSA and offer bachelors in Computer Science or related (tangentially or otherwise) fields?
I'm aware that NY in general is a more expensive state in cost-of-living but I've heard wages there are also higher. Would I be able to exist there off a part-time or full-time retail/food-service job? Also, I do currently have an Associate's degree, would I be able to get a better paying job through that or is it not enough?

Any other advice would be very much appreciated, and if I come up with more questions I'll edit them in ig.

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[–] ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

This is good insight. Thanks! I was pretty much expecting to have roommates anyways, it's not a major problem if I have them, but how undesirable of a location are you talking?

I would have thought wages to be higher in tandem for rent, is it not?

[–] Asafum@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Undesirable as in run down and higher crime. The closest area to me I have in mind is one that pretty regularly has stories about "MS-13" members using a machete on some poor fool.

I'll put it another way, I'm looking to get OUT of NY. This is a state for the already established, rich, or professional class.

As far as wages to match higher costs, not sure what the going rate is elsewhere but for a low end position, something like McDonald's/Taco Bell could pay ~$18/hr here but the spread is also abysmal, going from those kinds of jobs "upward" you kinda max out at $22ish/hr starting.

[–] ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Ah fair. Thanks so much for sharing! I appreciate the insights