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So, with people like that, you have to just keep your business to yourself. If I took the advice of the people around me, I would be in the position I’m in today. You have to ignore the advice of people who have not done what you are looking to do. I feel for you because the people you spend the most time with do influence you whether you like it or not. If your 5 closest friends are millionaires, the chances of you being the 6th are very high. Denzel Washington said it best when he was addressing a graduating class at commencement. He said “if you hang around a barbershop long enough sooner or later, you’re going to get a haircut.” Very true.
When I was a sales trainer I would have people come up to me and say, “my wife/husband told me I have 3 months to make this work.” I would tell them, forget the 3 months, I would just quit now because when you look at it like that, you’re already assuming that there will be a problem and you are already blaming the system for what will inevitably fail instead of realizing it’s actually you who will determine that. I would try to seek out like minded people because then you can figure out how to solve problems together. I don’t even tell people what I do anymore. When ask me (when they see my lifestyle and what I drive). I just tell them I do financial stuff. Then I change the subject. If I told them I make just under $1M per year selling Indexed Universal Life policies through the best IMO out there they would think I was speaking a different language because as much as I love them, they are just sheep who will be financial slaves for life working for somebody else and begging for a vacation like a third class citizen.
Also, take action. Don’t wait. All the best!!!