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Authorities say a missing Ohio teen was recovered in Florida after she logged in to an online video game at the home of the man who took her.

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[–] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 65 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Probably in reference to underaged spouses, basically you can't be charged with anything related to having a kid in your home if said kid is your spouse

[–] mateomaui@reddthat.com 63 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That whole statement is still really problematic. Not your problem, but damn.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 19 points 10 months ago (3 children)

This might surprise you, but not all that long ago there were plenty of married (and childrened) 16 year olds. Like, more the rule than the exception.

[–] mateomaui@reddthat.com 19 points 10 months ago

No, I’m well aware, doesn’t make that whole statement any less disturbing.

[–] JustMy2c@lemm.ee 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Still like that in much of rural south America

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

And other parts of the world, I'm pretty sure 16 is still the full age of consent in Germany for example.

[–] JustMy2c@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago

Nobody in Germany or any part of Europe is getting married young. 30 being young.

[–] LowtierComputer@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

My classmate in 2008 got married to a 40 gym teacher. She was 15.

[–] Ullallulloo@civilloquy.com -3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You have to already get judicial approval to marry, and it's literally only 17-year-olds being allowed to marry 18- and 19-year-olds. It's not really "having a kid in your home".

[–] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee -1 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] Ullallulloo@civilloquy.com -2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The laws have been restricted a lot in the last few years, so that isn't really relevant anymore. California, Mississippi, New Mexico, Oklahoma, and Washington are the only states without a minimum marriage age.

And I was just talking about Florida like in the article. It is one of the strictest states on child marriage in the country.

[–] TurtleJoe@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Are you intentionally using misleading phrasing here? Sure seems like it.

To put it a different way: 40 out of the 50 states allow minors under 18 to be married, with 30 of those 40 allowing children under 17 to be married.

Since those people being married are under 18, they don't have the legal rights of an adult, with guardianship going to their spouse. Can you see how that is a problem?

[–] Ullallulloo@civilloquy.com 0 points 10 months ago

That's not how that works. Guardianship is a totally separate concept. To be married, someone would be simultaneously emancipated and legally treated as an adult from thenceforth.

I wasn't trying to be misleading. I was just to trying to counter what I thought was very misleading language. When someone says a man has "a kid in his home" as an underaged spouse, the scenario that pops into your mind isn't that it's a 17-year-old emancipated girl who's just married her 18-year-old boyfriend, which is essentially the only legal scenario in Florida.