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J.K. Rowling will not be arrested for comments about transgender women, police say
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But she also has every single resource to escape her line of thinking while refusing to do so. She has never interacting with the trans community in any sort of good faith: so she does not deserve it in kind.
None of this is "cancel culture": again it's calling out her horrific thoughts and ideas. Plus those same horrific thoughts and ideas have tangible horrific effects. Fuck JK Rowling.
She doesn't know she needs to. She can't humanize the other side. Something I think you can relate to. I'm not at all against calling out JK Rowling and her absolutely toxic viewpoint. I'm actually advocating for it. I'm calling out your toxic viewpoint because "Fuck JK Rowling" isn't a heroic position that's just "calling someone out". It's a vilifying statement that provides no path to redemption. It's a selfish position you take to alleviate yourself of the responsibility of putting in the work to try and help the other person understand what they need to. While simultaneously making yourself feel like a champion.
I think if you set aside your ego and think about the times in your life when you got something wrong, you were only able to grow from it if your community (or maybe friends or family) help you to do so.
If you assume everyone that does a bad thing is evil, you'll lose the fight pretty quick. When you keep pouring your hate into other people because they gave you a chance to do it while feeling righteous, the other side will gladly take them as soldiers. You're just as responsible for those "horrific effects" as the people encouraging JK Rowling.
Imagine someone with the influence and platform of JK Rowling being on our side rather than pulling this shit. She could be an inspiration to all TERFs if we could make her understand the error of her ways. Even if she never did, I promise you, she wouldn't be as extreme as she is now if people spent more time talking to her with basic respect and patience. Rather than selfishly using her as a conduit for their anger over the issue, however justified that rage may be.
I understand that a lot of people are traumatized and pissed and it sucks. But we've got to talk to each other. I know that in the end you want to make the world a better place. So hear this: any relationship without constructive conversation is doomed. We know they're not going to pull their weight. So we've got to pull double. Don't tell me it's not your responsibility, because you're right. But it doesn't change the fact that they're going to go out next election and make their vote. Nor does it change the fact that they're going to keep donating to horrible institutions. So it's got to be us. We've got to be the adults.
this kinda sounds like victim blaming. you're putting it on trans people to tolerate hateful attacks and change their attackers' minds, lest those people become more extreme when they're rightfully called out. compare to any other minority/targeted group and those who hate them and listen to how your argument sounds.
naw. sorry, it's on shitty people like Rowling to stop being shitty.
When you say "it's on Rowling", if there's some sense of grand justice in the cosmos, you're right. But in the real, "we actually have to live on this planet with each other", sense? No sorry, we're fucked if you're just going to vent your anger and call that progress.
It's like you're standing on the deck of a sinking ship with your arms folded grumbling, "Not my fault we're sinking". You can debate the moral justice of your position 'til we're all underwater. Or you can grab a wrench and actually help.
You bring up a really great point and a glaring omission in my previous comments. So thanks for your comment. I'm not saying that you should be subjected to hateful people if you're mentally unable to withstand that. Just like I'm not saying you should go to war if you have a bad knee. Your health and well-being should be your first concern. In fact you'll probably just do more harm than good if you're not fit and ready to fight that fight. When you do choose to fight, you've got to be ready, because it won't be easy.
There should be safe spaces for Trans people or anyone, devoid of these toxic aggressors. Places where they can vent and say, "Fuck you JK Rowling!!" and not have to worry someone is going to come in and challenge their identity and truth. If you need to sort through your trauma and get therapy, by all means, stay away from toxic assholes until you're on stable ground. Secure your mask before helping others.
But if we're trying to think of how we might actually be able to better the growing toxic divide between the right and left, it's not more toxicity. When we actually interact or post something intended to be seen by someone like JK Rowling, they don't see your anger as consequences. They see it as justification that they were right all along. When you come out to fight you've got to leave the hateful venting at the door and try and build some kind of productive discourse. Communication is the basis for ANY productive relationship.
Edit: Just saw this very appropriate video that came out 2 hours ago, lol. Sort of a counter point to my point of view. But still very interesting.