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How to deal with a fear of failure? (lemmy.world)
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Due to this, I'm afraid of working on my own projects. This fear especially intensifies when I'm reaching some kind of milestone or personal goal (e.g. implementing a feature in software, or going to the next phase of a drawing), and end up procrastinating instead. Even worse is that I believe if I could get them finished, I could probably fix my current financial state.

Please note that in my country (Hungary), public mental health care is nearly nonexistent, and they're only existing so the state can point to it. I don't have any money for the private stuff, and I have higher priority health concerns that would benefit from higher-quality care (e.g. switching anti-seizure medications as my current doctor ignores its side effects).

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[–] ivanafterall@kbin.social 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I think you might be dealing, at least in part, with the differences between doing something you love as a passion/hobby versus doing it as a job, which can strip all of the joy away. I'm the same way with music. I make what I make for myself, the end, anything else is an unnecessary bonus.