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Not sure they can do anything - since I discovered federated platforms and started using more FOSS and non-corporate technology in my life, I am really glad to break away from it all.
I'm still on some platforms I'd rather not be (Discord), but the unfortunate truth of social platforms is that you have to be on them to socialise with certain friends/family, and encouraging people to use something different to talk to you is a non-starter for many.
I've been this for a long time - I can interact on the more FLOSS and federated stuff like it's 2002 or so... And my computer running Linux is like the good parts of the late 90s Windows OS without all the crashing and slowness.
I like parts of Discord well enough - I think the issue is most people just won't run their own stuff. Heck, I was finally forced to give up on hosting my e-mail because it became too hard to work around all the blocks etc.
People will never run their own stuff - it requires some know-how regardless of what it is, and there are costs associated with it.
Still, people not running their own stuff doesn't bother me in the slightest, but most people will refuse to use things other than what they know even if there are alternatives available. People will come up with all sorts of arbitrary reasons but it comes down to familiarity and inertia.
The marketplace only works if you change to things that fit your needs better. And if you've decided that product X fits your needs best - don't complain forever about it. What's even more frustrating is if someone is complaining for the 10,000 time to you about whatever, but then sigh and act all "you're not being serious" when you say - have you tried a different thing? This is the one that fixed a lot of my complaints about X.
I honestly think a lot of people are just either self destructive or just like to complain, which is fine, but stop complaining to me about it.