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New Communities

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A place to post new communities all over Lemmy for discovery and promotion.

Rules

The rules for behavior are a straight carry over of Mastodon.World's rules. You can click the link but we've reposted them here in brief, as a guideline. We will continue to use the Mastodon.World rules as the master list. Over all, be nice to each other and remember this isn't a community built around debate. For the rules about formatting your posts, scroll down to number 2.

1. Follow the rules of Mastodon.world, which can be found here.

A. Provide an inclusive and supportive environment. This means if it isn't rulebreaking and we can't be supportive to them then we probably shouldn't engage.

B. No illegal content.

C. Use content warnings where appropriate. This means mark your submissions NSFW if need be.

D. No uncivil behavior. This includes, but is not limited to: Name Calling; Bullying; Trolling; Disruptive Commenting; or Personal Criticisms.

E. No Harrassment. As an example in relation to Transgender people this includes, deadnaming, misgendering, and promotion of conversion therapy. Similarly Misogyny, Misandry, and Racism are also banned here.

2. Include a community title and description in your post title. - A following example of this would be New Communities - A place to post new communities all over Lemmy for discovery and promotion.

3. Follow the formatting. - The formatting as included below is important for people getting universal links across Lemmy as easily as possible.

Formatting

Please include this following format in your post:

[link text](/c/community@instance.com)

This provides a link that should work across instances, but in some cases it won't

You should also include either:

!community@instance.com

or instance.com/c/community

FAQ:

Q: Why do I get a 404?

A: At least one user in an instance needs to search for a community before it gets fetched. Searching for the community will bring it into the instance and it will fetch a few of the most recent posts without comments. If a user is subscribed to a community, then all of the future posts and interactions are now in-sync.

Q: When I try to create a post, the circle just spins forever. Why is that?

A: This is a current known issue with large communities. Sometimes it does get posted, but just continues spinning, but sometimes it doesn't get posted and continues spinning. If it doesn't actually get posted, the best thing to do is try later. However, only some people seem to be having this problem at the moment.

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I searched this morning for communities related to polyamory and open relationships. Finding nothing, I created something. If you are interested in polyamory, open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, etc, swing on by for a chat, to post something silly, as you will.

edit: !polyamory@kbin.run

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[–] Atelopus-zeteki@kbin.run 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I see what you mean. And I corrected the link above to what I think is correct. Can you, would you please check me on that? I'm just learning how this all works. Seems there's some federation issues for some users.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No, you need to literally put !polyamory@kbin.run instead of just !polyamory. It's like dialing someone's phone number who lives in a different country and not including the country code when you don't include an instance.

[–] Atelopus-zeteki@kbin.run 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Hmm, do you realize when I copy each of those "!polyamory" (which appear as blue links) above, in your message, and then paste them next to each other in the text editor, that both of them are the same. LIke this: https://kbin.run/m/Polyamory

which further confuses me as to what you are suggesting, as I think I've done what you suggested.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

[!polyamory@kbin.run](/c/polyamory@kbin.run) not !polyamory. It's like trying to email "John". John at what? You're on kbin.run so it goes to [!polyamory@kbin.run](/c/polyamory@kbin.run) like you expect. When I click on !polyamory it tries to go to [!polyamory@programming.dev](/c/polyamory@programming.dev) because my instance is programming.dev.

[–] Atelopus-zeteki@kbin.run 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ok, thank you, it appears the fog of ignorance has been dissipated by your brilliance. I apologize for being so dense. This should work a whole lot better.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It's okay. It's sort of a complicated thing to explain. I was trying to not be overly technical but it's sort of difficult to explain otherwise. ❤️ I subscribed, by the way. I'm excited to interact!

[–] Atelopus-zeteki@kbin.run 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Thanks friend, you did well by me. Yeah, me too. The @polyamory@lemmy.world group seems good as well. (LoL, hey, it worked!!) It's been my observation that more people all the time are looking for relationship options that fit them better than the standard monogamy model. I used to think that poly was just one of those odd things about me that not everyone shares. And I got ok with that. But the percentage of false paternity speaks to the fact that people want to cheat reproductively or otherwise. Cheating sounds way too dangerous to oneself and one's partners, with STIs, and even with hurt feelings. I prefer to talk about things, so everyone knows what's going on, and each can decide how they want to play.