When he gets upset with other kids, particularly when they break rules, he is absolutely convinced he needs to be the executive of the rules and often hits or pushes the other kids.

He was doing it before my ex and I separated. It only seems to happen during the summer at the day care program, so it's likely something more going on there.

Kids are still humans, and honestly I have to remind myself I'm doing the best I can. Because if I knew a better way to do things, I'd be doing that instead.

To me it's not about raising a superstar, it's raising someone who shares my values, and is capable of caring for themselves as an adult. Socializing and play is the most vital part of childhood development, so I do everything I can there.

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 2 points 3 months ago

Well put. I exaggerated, and not to minimize their issues, but the fact you clearly care and are willing to work at it makes me less worried for them.

All you can do is encourage good behavior/perspectives and discourage the bad. At some point, every child growing up will have to decide if they want to be like their parents or not. You're clearly doing great, just keep going! And take care of yourself as well...