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Oh my goodness! Please, please, please look after yourself and your health and wellbeing first and foremost!
It sounds like we're a lot alike, and I burned myself out overextending myself, like you're doing, trying to help others so much for so long...my health issues got worse and now I can't help anyone because I can barely even take care of myself! and it's an awful feeling when previously helping others was my whole thing and reason for living.
This may be unsolicited and TMI, but just wanted to caution you about what could happen. Look after yourself, please! You deserve it! Remember that you can't help and look after others if you don't help and look after yourself. Thank you for everything you've done and are doing already. Hang in there. <3
I greatly appreciate the feedback and I have taken a few steps back this week to ensure I'm not overextending myself. Thank you for looking out for me 🥰💜
That's great to hear -- and well said @Zoop@beehaw.org. Burnout's a huge risk in situations like this, so very glad you're taking care of yourself.