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Crushes are non-consensual. Getting rejected is definitely the best, because that is the first step to getting over an unhealthy obsession.
I don't think that's what most people mean by the term crush. It sounds like you're describing something closer to stalking.
Yeah wtf. It's totally natural to have a crush, and it doesn't necessarily mean you're totally obsessed with them.