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This dude just casually handing out the secret to being a good conversationalist. Ask questions, listen to the answers and follow them like a trail of breadcrumbs. All of a sudden you're having a conversation, and you won't be worrying about your courage
Which works great until the other person responds with 2-5 words max every time you ask a question (dating apps)
That's a good thing, imagine if you ended up with that person.
Yeah trying to have a conversation on a dating app is like pissing into the wind
Edit: interesting username, is that a reference to the old flash player gnash?
A good solution here is to ask open ended questions instead of ones with a yes or no etc answer and to talk about their interests.
Those people aren't a good match for you (or maybe anyone).
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i'll never cease to be amazed at how much the old ways still work.