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Hey all,

So I recently decided to go vegan. My personal reasons for ditching animal products were because of environmental factors, animal welfare, and trying to maintain consistency with the values I hold to their logical ends.

I was curious. I've seen a lot of hate towards vegans online, admittedly being someone who partook in that several years ago myself to a small degree. While I'm glad and very lucky people I know closely have been making accommodations for me, I'm also worried about mentioning or bringing it up to people I'm getting to know since I don't want to rub them the wrong way if they possibly have these notions that being vegan and veganism are a bad thing. Namely when it's relevant in conversation like people asking me why I read ingredients lists or can't have something they're offering me, which I've been half-lying attributing to food allergies and intolerances out of worry (I'm lactose intolerant, which helps as a cop-out).

I'm wanting to know what people dislike about vegans, whether they're based on previous experiences they've had, or preconceived notions, and what would make someone a "good vegan" in their eyes. I know I shouldn't be a people-pleaser, but knowing this stuff would definitely help me gain the confidence to be more open about myself and my personal values to others who don't necessarily share said values.

Thanks in advance, I'll try to respond where possible, but it's going to be a busy day for me, though I do read all replies to posts I make.

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[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

I’m not into this line of thinking because by continuing to eat meat they’re still causing animal suffering. It isn’t a belief without consequences (like talking to the air is), it actually impacts others (the animals).

[–] protist@mander.xyz 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

All beliefs and practices impact others, because they guide your behavior and your behavior impacts others. It's up to you whether you decide to bring your beliefs and practices into every conversation, but the person you're talking to is likely to think you're unpleasant to be around. This is especially true if you place your belief or practice in judgment of someone else's.

So sure, you can be vocal if that's what you want to do, but you're also likely to suffer social consequences, which is what OP is asking about avoiding.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 6 points 3 weeks ago

Well I don’t want to generalize about every possible belief, but what I wrote is that by consuming meat you’re impacting animals’ lives so the argument that each person has a choice and it only impacts that person is false.

I’m not addressing every possible belief someone might hold.

[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This is kinda exemplifying it. It's one thing to raise awareness, but it's another to chastise someone's preferences for one of the main bodily functions necessary to live and try to make them uproot their entire lives around a philosophy. The fact of the matter is, barring a cataclysmic event, people are still going to eat what they enjoy. If you can convert someone to the cause, sweet, but if they say no, leave it be. You aren't going to shame someone into going vegan, and that he line makes someone a dick.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If eating meat is needed to live, and I haven’t eaten meat in 6+ years how am I alive?

[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Where did I say eating meet is needed to live? I said preference. Your reading comprehension and abrasion aren't winning you any points bud.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works -5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Annnd there it is folks, the vegan that has to assume moral superiority.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I said that eating dead animals impacts those animals’ lives, not just the person who chooses to eat meat. Where do you think meat comes from?