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Since we're talking about how people come off, you come off as one of those people who like to think they are logical and rational but are very dismissive of emotions (of others) and come off as condescending, because you are. You're also probably pedantic.
So, to appeal to your rational side, just because a decision is based off of emotion doesn't inherently invalidate it. If someone said "3 isn't a prime number you donkey" and you got mad and argued that it was, you're still correct even if the way you got to that conclusion wasn't rational.
It's probably a variation of ad homonym but I'm not going to bother to look up the specifics.
I think people over value emotions, but I realize I'm part of people too and it happens to me. Emotions are a fast heuristic but they're not very inaccurate. They're good for when speed is important, or when more information isn't available. Neither is true on an async post about Linux. But yes, I can be dismissive of emotions but it's something I'm working on.
I've seen too many people make strange, unhelpful, decisions because like "someone told me to do something and now I won't" or "that guy was rude so I'm not going to listen". That's what your post felt like to me. (Note the emotional dimension there, heh)
Like, imagine a friend who always forgets their plans, is late, and double books themselves. You probably can't just be like "use a calendar, dude". You probably have to gently massage them and incept the idea. If you just tell them, they'll feel bad, reject the idea, and continue having problems. (In real life, some months later the friend did come around to using a calendar, but only after uselessly wrestling with feeling bad)