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speaking as a parent this is one of my worst fears. I want to help support my kids in whatever drives them. I know though, at some point that my kids will make their own decisions that have their own life changing repercussions. the best I can do is impart my own wisdom on them early to allow them to make better decisions when that time comes.
I'll impart some of my own worldly knowledge on you if you don't mind. You're never too old to do what you want to do. it won't be easy, but nothing that makes your life better ever is. I was in my 30s once I turned my life around. I'll never be where I wanted to be, but I'm a lot further than I would have been had I never tried. find what you're good at and drives you and don't ever be ashamed of wherever that leads you. to thine own self be true.
I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you needed, but as an adult remember, our parents are only human and make mistakes too. this doesn't mean what they did was acceptable, but rather allows you to acknowledge the actions and move on from them.
I accepted my father some years after his death, and have acknowledged my mother's shortcomings. what has driven me to that point is my own failings as a parent. I realized that I was making the same mistakes they were just by trying to not become them. my goal as a parent was literally "don't be like mom or dad". now, my goal is "be the dad my kids need".
They don't always get what they want, but I'm always willing to listen if it's important enough to them. I love my kids, would do anything for them if it's in their self-interest. I hope they look back as adults and realize that so they don't have to waste years on battling the same demons I had.
thanks for sharing.