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Germany.
G'day from Australia :)
Social media trends to be a harsh place. Getting down voted and argued with can be quite jarring and distressing - especially when you're coming from a position of honest curiosity and are met with hostility. The written word can amplify this as text lacks some of the nuance that a real conversation has.
Not everyone is a bad person. You might need a break from social media now and then to reset.
You might also be an HSP like me - see https://youtu.be/TPR1P_D8zjY - gives us some unique challenges.
I'm not sure which is the 'nicest' country. I've asked myself this a few times. So far New Zealand seems to be the winner, but that's based on one visit only.
There's a lot there in that video that I think will resonate with most people, myself included, but I nearly did not get past the philosophical problem of the speaker's claims that HSPs somehow feel things deeper than others. As if people that are better equipped or trained to manage their emotions are somehow experiencing emotions on a shallower level. That line of logic reminds me way too much of the way colonizers would dehumanize indigenous peoples by claiming that the culture and language of those indigenous peoples were somehow less developed because of a difference in technological development. I know that they are very different situations. I'm just trying to draw abstract parallels to show why I find the language they used offensive.
Either way, that video left me wondering. Which would be more emotionally exhausting, being an HSP or accommodating one on a regular basis?
Omg this is exactly me! I never heard of HSP before but everything they say in the video fits perfectly and it also explains many things of my life. Thank you so much!
Just looked into autism and those symptoms seem quite the opposite of how I experience myself but of course I'm not an expert and I could be wrong here.
You're welcome. Glad it helps :)