Well the bit where they describe their wholesale extermination as "a single foreign policy issue". Or the bit where they value the lives of hundreds of thousands of Palestinians less then a single digit number of Americans.

wouldn’t actively try to destroy LGBT/women/minories’ rights

Again, makes it seem like you don't consider Palestinians human. Palestinians are women, Palestinians are LGBT. The Democrats were actively destroying their lives.

What other choice to we have besides continuing to protest and using our meager wages to help fund aid for Palestine? Wtf else is the OP supposed to do to prove they care about Palestinians in your eyes?

Not whining about and attacking the people opposed to their genocide while supporting the people carrying out their genocide.

I have so many queer friends, and I am dating a trans person. I know so many immigrants

A number that is essentially negligible compared to the number of people massacred in Gaza.

Why shouldn’t I be mad

Does "being mad" help anyone? Or is this just you admitting that this was never about pragmatic lesser-evilism and is just Democrat supporters being petulant that they lost.

Like. How does being mad that people picked Option B mean you are fine with people dying?

Maybe you should be mad at the people committing genocide. Not the people fucking opposing it.

You know, if you genuinely believe in the "lesser evil" argument and actually follow it to its conclusion, you shouldn't be looking at a situation where "doing another Holocaust" is bipartisan policy, and trying to figure out how you can ensure that you and your friends can be most comfortable. You should be trying to figure out what will most quickly lead to the collapse and destruction of the USA government. But I don't see many VBNMW types willing to actually follow through on that.