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A boudoir photographer reached out to me for a shoot. Does that seem sketch? (alien.top)
submitted 11 months ago by Inevitable-Agent9032@alien.top to c/photography@viewfinder.pro
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A photographer reached out to me through social media asking me to shoot with him sometime. Although I’d love to have a shoot for myself, does this seem sketchy? He’s taken photos for friends i know and they said he seemed cool and laid back. They also mentioned that he took a while to send them their pictures and wouldn’t respond before sending them. Anyway, just wanted to hear some thoughts on this.

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[–] reversedbydark@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago (4 children)

How would you go about this just starting out in photography?

This is just paranoia.

[–] Flandereaux@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Boudoir isn't for beginner photographers, especially male ones who may or may not be more interested in the subject matter than the photography aspect of it.

These assholes that think buying a DSLR is the price tag to get up close and personal with a scantily clad woman makes it harder for everyone on both sides of the camera with a legitimate interest in making art.

[–] themanlnthesuit@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Agree, plenty of guys with a camera are trying to do that shit.

But if the model says he's got a got portfolio and references from other models, doesn't sound sound like it's the case.

[–] Flandereaux@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Being skilled and experienced doesn't preclude being a creep. I can't imagine a professional with a network of models just making unsolicited offers to randoms on IG offering a free boudoir shoot ... and the OP's update with the photographer's subsequent messages confirms my suspicion.

I'm not the most emotionally intelligent out there, but even I could see the bright red flags in that one. There is no legitimate reason to try and offer a young woman, model or not, a bottle of wine and a 'free' photo session in exchange for getting nearly naked in front of you and likely try to pressure her into more for his 'generosity.'

It's just so sickening to me.

[–] themanlnthesuit@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago

You do you, but plenty of photographers do it that way and do legit work.

But trying to bunch the creeps with real photographers just doing regular TFP tells a world about you, peace out.