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People who don't realize that tolerance is a social contract will tolerate assholism, which abets the assholing.
That's got to stop.
Yeah. Now stop being afraid and stand up to the fucking bullies. Now watch as they change the definition of "intolerant".
"Standing up to a bully that wants to kill you? That's Intolerant!".
Sound familiar? The nazi with the giant hole in his neck? Oh no, I'm being intolerant. The christian terrorist nazi psychopath with the giant hole in his neck.
You won't have a chance to be intolerant of the nazis very soon, if you don't start fighting against the nazis in effective ways.
Ok but how do we deal with.... you know.. those people who destroy community for profits, who undermine us by exposing us with global competition, the people who promote laws like "right to work" and "no child left behind" to break our organizations against their power asymmetry while making us dumber and weaker, the people who rig the system with a smile without saying even one slur ?
Do we have to tolerate them if they duck us by the rules ?
That makes sense actually
WTF didn't Popper include that obvious fact ?
Was it just taken for granted in the post world wars that assholes catch bullets ?
I do wish we could stop confusing tolerance with active support though. I don't need to be on your team to tolerate you or your lifestyle. In fact, we don't even need to acknowledge each other's existence to be tolerant of one another. We just need to let each other exist unimpeded.
whoa, I just realized this is basically the left-lib equivalent of the NAP.