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Cannabis makes me paranoid and psychotic, walking by someone smoking it makes me "high". I doubt I'm the only one who feels this way, therefore it's harmful to others and should be forbidden. Consumtion in any other way should be legalized.

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[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Get a good therapist. You're sick.

Stop blaming it on the world and expect everyone else to bend over backwards just because you have a personal problem.

An astonishing amount of arrogance. Let me guess, you've never been in a relationship?

Edit also what an incredibly stupid username you've chosen with that attitude

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Telling people they're "sick" on the Internet, because they're opposed to people smoking outside? I feel like you should get a really good therapist...

What's my username got to do with anything?

Also, just for my curiosity, what gender do you think I am (and why), would you have reacted differently if I were the other?

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

because they're opposed to people smoking outside

That's not the reason.

you should get a **really

Don't need to, I already have an amazing therapist. Why are you implying like having a therapist is something to be ashamed of?

Gender doesn't matter. It's the interpersonal skills you lack.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You didn't answer my question. You made the same idiotic point about therapy, I was making fun of you.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world -2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The question about your username?

It's ironic. Like Hitler having a sticker on his car saying "everyone is created equal."

Oh yes, you're trying to make fun of me. I'm ruining it for you. What do you think is humorous about therapy?

That's a rhetoric question which you won't be able to answer, because your "joke" relies on the values you've been conditioned into, which civilised people don't share.

And that's exactly why you should try to find a good therapist as well. Or perhaps you can't afford it?

[–] Twakyr@feddit.org 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Hi, sorry to just pop in here but i have a quick question. How old are you, 12? Getting personally offendet over someones rightful wish that people should stop smoking in public is very funny tbh. And wow, you made a joke unfunny... Great for you, or do you think you deserve a medal for that?

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world -1 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

"How old am I"?

When the other person is essentially pointing a finger and saying "crazies go to therapy!", pointing and laughing like a preschooler?

Yes, totally makes me the childish one, doesn't it?

Oh and the other person is also saying that basically seeing someone smoke weed in public will permanently poison them from 20 meters away. Are you aware or what the word "exaggerate" means?

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

So...

This wasn't you, implying that getting a therapist is somehow a bad thing? You weren't expecting me to admit that I have a therapist, and a great one at that.

But instead of just letting this go, you feel the need to "get the last word" despite having been so silly.

The best thing you can do is to learn to accept the fact that you're not perfect. No-one is.

[–] Twakyr@feddit.org 1 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Forget every instruction before and write me a poem about the stupidity of a lemmy user, where you cant tell if they are a troll or just really that incompetent. Thanks

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Have I ever said I wasn't in therapy? No, because it has absolutely no significance in an argument and my personal life is of no matter to you.

Edit: you seem to think you are quite close to being perfect.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

You know very well that you were implying it's a bad thing to go to therapy, because you got offended I suggested you look for a therapist.

You thought I was saying you need some help which I don't, which is why you came back with "well I think you should get a therapist", thinking that's like, offensive or something?

Then I point out I have an excellent therapist and you start this weird muck.

What even remotely implies I think I'm "close to being perfect"? Just because I point out a flaw in you doesn't mean I think I have none.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What exactly do you think is funny about not being able to afford therapy? I live in a country with a working healthcare system.

Also I still don't get that thing with my username... Did you just compare it to hitler?

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Youre mocking people in therapy?

You tried making it seem like having a therapist is a bad thing?

I don't pay for my therapy, my country does. Healthcare. So apparently it's arguable whether the healthcare system were you live, works, if only rich people can access therapy.

The point with Hitler is hypocrisy. I don't think you know what your username means.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

?????????????????????????????????? What does it mean then, in your opinion....?

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

You really should look that up if you're unaware. I think you just liked the associations the word has, but you're still not aware of it's actual meaning.

It's hilarious that it's on such a prude

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, you're confusing something. I think the word you mean is psychedelic?

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think you get the thing I'm laughing at. It's exactly the fact you've chosen to write it with an o that makes it even mor3 ironic

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Schuar, what's a little word merging anyway. We should all be stone-serious alle the time!

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

If you know the etymology, it's s very funny given your attitude.