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[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I already explained, I just personally dislike it when people make jokes about two people fucking in a pejorative manner.

[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net -3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, I personally dislike it if people don't have the guts to call me a liar and hide behind their arbitrary definitions that suit their point best. So I guess we're all unhappy now.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm not hiding begind "arbitrary definitions," the definition you gave literally agreed with me. Historically, that's the most relevant usage of the term.

[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Read the encircled definition again. Terms can have more than one meaning, dawg.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The connotation is that of the first definition. The other definitions exist within the context of that definition.

[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You can't help it telling me what I meant when I explicitly told you what I meant, huh? Are you trying to gaslight me, or something? Because that's a fucked up thing to do.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I told you the connotation of what you said, not your intention. I'm not gaslighting you, I'm telling you that when you say 2 people are in a sugar daddy relationship, it's assumed by the reader that they are exchanging sexual favors for goods or cash.

[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why does the assumed connotation matter if the targeted meaning was laid bare if not for your stubborn ass to get the last word in?

Want to examine those connotations? /s

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago

Because the assumed connotation was what I took issue with, as I pointed out. Not sure why this is difficult to understand.